I was once a young guy in school. I used to really like her. By the time I had discovered that she was in a relationship with someone else. I didn't tell about my feelings for anyone. One day I wrote a letter to her that I was in love with her and I am willing to wait. I believed with time she would realize that I was the one for her and it would just happen.
After a few months she left school and moved to a different city. It was very painful at first. But what followed was a series of depression for me. I went into depression for long time. The school and the place reminded me of her. I lost sight of friends, became a lonely person and my personality changed. I became loner and sad and I just couldn't share with anyone how much I was hurting inside. This was the girl I though I loved. She was the one I cared about and meant so much in my small world and now she was gone.
It too me years to move ahead. Finally I moved to a different city and it started helping me get over her. I couldn't like anyone like I liked her. I only saw her face and I assumed everything from my heart. I still couldn't like anyone or be with anyone.
So I decided to get married. We have children now and I love my life. I realize if something doesn't happen its not meant to be. She is only a distant memory now. She means nothing to me. All that matters to me now is my family. I realize that whatever I went through, it helped me become strong and made me the person that I am now.
So friends no matter how much the pain is. Look ahead, look into the horizon and believe that time will change all of it and that no matter how hard the pain eventually you will move on. Life's greatest gift is that we move on.
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